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A Legacy of Advocacy, A Future of Possibilities
For over 40 years, SAGE has championed the rights and well-being of LGBTQ+ elders. Honor their legacies. But they might know how to survive a heartbreak with dignity or how to fix your leaky faucet while giving you relationship advice.
JohnAs a busy, goal-oriented person at a critical period in my career, I've had little time to actively find opportunities to meet older senior singles like myself nearby. I'm still here."
Alan Kanen
SAGE Participant
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It’ll stretch you. Those who wish to work as mentors and elders have to keep one eye on the youth—and another on conditions in the village.”
—Michael Meade, Elder and Storyteller
WE ARE A GROUP OF GAY MEN, more or less fifty-five or older, who have assembled to support each other in becoming gay elders.
With these filters, you can narrow your preferences based on age, sexual orientation, etc., to find compatible matches for meaningful connections.
Is online dating safe for gay older dating?
Absolutely. Perhaps, he cursed like a sailor and baked like your grandma. As such, you can look forward to establishing genuine connections.
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Our website prioritizes facilitating love connections over flashiness, so we’ve designed our platform to be simple and easy to navigate.
Watched marriage equality bloom. But when you only have friends who were born in the Obama era, you miss out.
Older gay men might not know your favorite meme, but they might know how to cook.
So, no matter where your interest and preference lie, we are your best chance at finding the old gay dating you want.
Furthermore, we take pride in fostering local connections, which means you don’t need to worry about the hassles of long-distance relationships.
Through advocacy, community, and support, we ensure that every LGBTQ+ person can age with dignity and pride.
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Too often, older gay men become invisible—especially in media, in bars, and yes, even in fiction.
Now, you can browse our database for compatible, like-minded, mature matches. And when writing openly queer stories could cost you everything.
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Bring age diversity to your characters. When gay bars were sacred, not Instagrammable. Or love.