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It’s getting into the “pup” headspace.

Some pups and handlers add D/S into their play. When you take on a pup persona, you don’t have to worry about your work, your bills, even your friends and families.

It’s like being a sugar baby, really. But not every time!

Many pups and handlers enjoy it for the emotional or playful connections. Sometimes, going on a vacay or meditating just won’t do the trick, you know?

Some pups love getting into their primal side.

Think about how dogs play— sniffing, wrestling, being a bit rough-and-tumble. But still, gear is a personal choice, not a requirement.

The Role of Gear and Rituals

Speaking of pup gears, gear and rituals play a significant role in enhancing the whole pup play experience.

Pup Gear

Pup gear is all about helping people step into their pup persona.

● The hood can help someone feel less self-conscious.

● Collars often represent the bond between a pup and their handler.

● Tails can be tied around the waist or come as part of anal plugs.

It has nothing to do with actual dogs.

Pup play is all about sex.

Yes, there’s sex in pup play. It’s not all about sexy stuff or being cute and cuddly. Some pups love the look and feel of the gear. Calming, even. It’s almost like a form of therapy to some queers.

It’s similar to littlespace, where some use roleplay to process difficult feelings.

They also often look so badass! They’re the bottoms (or bot).

● The doms are called “Trainers” or “Handlers.” They train, guide, and care for the bot. Why is puppy play so popular?

‘Cause it allows people to explore different sides of themselves in a fun, non-judgmental way.

Release all the stress and expectations. All that’s in your head is this mantra: Run! Play! What the collar signifies can turn into the opposite once the relationship ends or changes. This could involve everything from playful commands to sexual acts. It’s a lot like any other power exchange. Some gay guys put on a mask or gear.

For couples, pup play can make partners feel more secure and loved.

Freedom to Explore Identity

Creating a “pupsona”— your unique pup identity— is one of the most fun aspects of pup play.

It’s an opportunity to express “cuddly” or “bitchy” parts of yourself that you may not have a chance to display in your regular routine.

Good boy!