Should a christian go to a gay wedding “Can I attend a Gay Wedding?” This question has been bubbling up in Christian circles for almost twenty years. However, since Obergefell became the law of the land in 2015, 1 it has become ubiquitous and unavoidable, dividing churches, families, and friends. Inherent in the question is a knot of theological and cultural threads tangled together — matters of identity, the gospel, the.