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What are we looking for in the faces of these people who dared to challenge the mores of their time to seek solace together? While some of the images were taken in photo booths, many others were likely taken by a third party. When we see them as connected, we feel more whole, and that’s what love is about for many of us anyway.
The book, Loving: A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s-1950s (5 Continents Editions), is available online.
24 inspiring vintage photos of LGBTQ people celebrating their communities
After the Stonewall Riots in New York City, people celebrated with gay pride marches in the 1970s.
The Stonewall Uprising in June 1969 was a pivotal moment in the fight for LGBTQ rights.
Pictured, people take to the streets in 1970.
Gay pride marches across the country quickly became a celebration that welcomed people of any color, religion, or sexual orientation.
Members of the Jewish community pose for a photo at gay pride.
The parade was also a time to celebrate gender — and blurring the lines of gender expression.
Throughout the 1960s and '70s, LGBTQ people held rallies in San Francisco.
They demonstrated the power of the community.
Gay pride wasn't only held in the US, however.
London held its own march for the LGBTQ community in 1977.
This couple celebrated the 1971 parade in New York City with a kiss.
Throughout LGBTQ history, kissing has been a sign of love between friends, partners, and lovers.
A couple is pictured kissing in 1971.
Similarly, in 1975, LGBTQ couples celebrated their love at the pride parade in New York's Central Park.
Some held hands while strolling through the parade streets.
It was even common for parents of LGBTQ children to come out to the parade to support their children and show love.
This mom's sign reads, "My gay son is the greatest."
Here in 1974, fathers and mothers walked alongside their LGBTQ children at the parade in New York City.
Their signs express their pride for their children.
Pictures from these events show how the marches were a celebration of love, companionship, and acceptance.
Friends celebrate together.
But these moments of queer celebration weren't just saved for marches.
In 1981, this couple was caught in a blissful embrace.
Gay bars and clubs were also a safe haven for the LGBTQ community.
Here, four gay men dance in a San Francisco club in 1977.
Dancing at marches was also common.
Here, a group dances in 1989.
Although drag queens have broken into mainstream culture today, they have been around for generations.
Here, a drag queen entertains guests in 1966.
Although same-sex marriage wasn't yet legalized, that didn't stop LGBTQ couples from tying the knot at special ceremonies.
An engaged couple is pictured in 1971.
In 1976, this gay couple celebrated their new union.
Massachusetts became the first state to legalize same-sex marriage following a ruling in 2003.
Photos also captured more intimate moments at home.
See Photos of Gay Men in Love Dating Back to the 1850s
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A new exhibition features romantic snapshots found at flea markets, antique shops and online auctions
In a series of photographs, men from around the world kiss, hug, picnic and gaze into each others’ eyes.
“They couldn’t do it when they were alive, but they can do it now, and I think that’s really powerful.”
Nini and Treadwell, who have been together for more than 30 years, stumbled upon the first photograph in their collection at an antique shop in Dallas, Texas.
Seeing ourselves in the past is as much about being certain of our present and, dare I say, our future. To do so, they not only had to get on a plane, but legally “set up residence in Boston, with an address, utilities, phone service, and a bank account,” as then-Governor Mitt Romney had revived a forgotten law from 1913 preventing Massachusetts from becoming, in his words, “the Las Vegas of same-sex marriage”.
At some point between these two weddings, among a pile of vintage pictures at an antique store in Texas, Hugh and Neal found an image that blew their minds: in front of a small 1920s-style house “were two young men, embracing and gazing at one another, clearly in love”.
In Loving: A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s–1950s, hundreds of images tell the story of love and affection between men, with some clearly in love and others hinting at more than just friendship. The show, titled “Loving,” is based on the 2020 photography book Loving: A Photographic History of Men in Love by Hugh Nini and Neal Treadwell.
The collection belongs to Hugh Nini and Neal Treadwell, a married couple who has accumulated over 2,800 photographs of “men in love” during the course of two decades.
100 Years of Photographs of Gay Men in Love
Hundreds of photographs from the 19th and 20th centuries offer a glimpse at the life of gay men during a time when their love was illegal almost everywhere.
A beautiful group of photographs that spans a century (1850–1950) is part of a new book that offers a visual glimpse of what life may have been like for those men, who went against the law to find love in one another’s arms.
This one showed two soldiers in the 1940s, posing cheek-to-cheek, with an etching on the art deco glass frame that said, “Yours always.”
Thanks to the pair’s formidable research and passion, today their collection amounts to over 2,800 vintage photographs spanning from roughly 1850 to 1951, shot in Australia, Bulgaria, Canada, Croatia, France, Germany, Japan, Latvia, the UK and the USA.
The story of the collection is told by Hugh and Neal in the essay “An accidental collection”, included in their book, Loving: A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s-1950s, published by 5 Continents Editions.
Over the years, the pair studied the images, attempting to decode the signs of “one hundred years of social history”, and found some recurring symbols.
Flipping through the book, it wasn’t that I felt that I learned a great deal about being LGBTQ, but what gave me comfort was the feeling that we’re not going anywhere. Loving is available in five languages: French, English, Italian, German and Spanish.
Nini and Treadwell hope that the new exhibition—and shows like it in the future—will continue to spread the message that “love is love,” as Treadwell tells the Art Newspaper’s Karen Chernick.
“Love has been around forever,” he adds.
“Loving” is on view at the Musée Rath in Geneva, Switzerland, through September 24.
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This article was originally published onVICE Italy.
Hugh Nini and Neal Treadwell are Texan art collectors, who got “unofficially” married in 1992.
While the majority of the images hail from the United States and are of predominantly white men, there are images from Australia, Bulgaria, Canada, Croatia, France, Germany, Japan, Latvia, and the United Kingdom among the cache.
What do images of men in love during a time when it was illegal tell us? The identities of the photographers and subjects connected to most of the images are a mystery.
“The pictures adopt the same staging as for heterosexual couples: couples pose at the bow of a ship, on the branch of a tree, at the beach, in the forest and in bed, and they sometimes also simulate a wedding stance,” per a statement from the Musee d’Art et d’Histoire.
By 1902, Robert Faries had invented a rudimentary device to shoot self-portraits, but it doesn’t appear to have been used in many of these pictures. The answer, according to the collectors, is that couples would get help from friends and family. The men likely just “wanted to have something to remember themselves by,” as Treadwell tells Reuters’ Denis Balibouse and Gabrielle Tétrault-Farber.
Now, for the first time, the book and exhibition mean that “these couples get to speak for themselves,” as Nini told CNN’s Oscar Holland in 2020.
So far, more than 4,000 such images—all taken between the 1850s and 1950s—have been found.
Now, 400 of these romantic snapshots are on display at the Musée Rath in Geneva, Switzerland, which hosts the Musee d’Art et d’Histoire’s temporary exhibitions. These old photos remind us that such cruel laws still exist, and give us a candid insight into hidden love from the past.
Many of the photographs were in near-perfect condition when Nini and Treadwell found them, which suggests they were safely hidden away somewhere over the decades.
Taken in 1927, the snapshot showed two men embracing. The photo dated back to when same-sex relationships were illegal not only in the States, but in most countries across the world.
The two collectors thought the photo must be one-of-a-kind, but soon after they found another in an online auction. In 2006, the couple was finally officially able to tie the knot in Massachusetts, “the only place in the US where it was possible to get married”.
Proof of this comes from some of the pictures collected in the book, depicting not just the couple but also – to use a modern term – their allies.
Today, homosexuality is still illegal in 70 countries around the world, and many LGBTQ people are still forced to either be discreet when it comes to expressing love, or to live in complete secrecy.