Gay deep rimming

Rimming.

Consent needs to be given by the person who will receive the rim job. "A lot of people tend to douche expecting rimming to turn into anal sex. Come on, it’s a new year. Many people believe that rimming is simply a stepping stone on the way to penetrative anal sex, or that rimming is an activity reserved for gay and bisexual men.

Darting your tongue in and out constantly is not sustainable so [it’s better to] do that intermittently."

Just as you would with oral sex on a vagina or penis, keep communication open throughout the act with your partner, asking them what they’re enjoying and what’s not working for them, and adapt your approach depending on their response.

If you’re rimming a person with a penis, a cock ring can be used to add extra arousal. It’s just very fun."

How to talk to a partner about rimming 

Consent and communication are the cornerstones of all good sex, whether it’s your standard missionary or rimming. Keep the conversation going before, during and after rimming to keep everyone comfortable and get the best pleasure out of ass-eating for the both of you.

If you’re feeling adventurous, I’ve got the perfect thing for you: rimming.

Despite the undeniable pleasure that can arise from butt play, many people still clench unnecessarily with even the thought of something foreign getting close to their anus.  While it’s true that your backside is involved in some pretty unsexy things like trips to the bathroom and colonoscopies, it’s also full of nerve endings and possibly your untapped source of sexual pleasure.  If you’re interested in all things anal, check out our previous discussion on the topic here.  But for today’s lesson, we’ll exclusively be focusing on rimming.

Rimming, or anilingus as it is often called, involves performing oral stimulation on your partner’s anus.  Before you go clutching your pearls and making “eww, gross” faces, hear me out.  Rimming is just one more tool in your sex toolshed that can help make bedroom time even more titillating.  For those unfamiliar with the art (and it’s definitely an art) of rimming, let me be your anilingus guide into a brand-new world.  What follows are some tips on how to rim like a pro and important things you should know about rim jobs before diving in head first.  

I’m not that kinky

Rimming gets a bad rap.  That is, people think rimming is something dirty, something only sexual deviants engage in.  While rimming can be kinky, you don’t have to be a member of the kink community to enjoy it.  Rimming isn’t something to be ashamed of.  A lot of people also think that only certain groups of people (like gay men) partake in rimming.  Well, I’m here to tell you that just isn’t true.  It doesn’t matter who you like or how you identify.  If you have a booty hole or a tongue, you can enjoy rimming also!  So, leave behind your preconceived notions and get out your notepads.  You’re about to get a crash course in anilingus.

Does it really feel that good?

The short answer is: yes.  It all goes back to those wonderful nerve endings we mentioned above.  The internal and external anal sphincters are rich in nerve endings.  Many of these nerve endings are most abundant around the anal opening, but the outermost part of the rectum also has them.  This means that even the light caress of your partner’s tongue on your backside can intensify sexual pleasure and take your orgasm to the next level.  Plus, the taboo, bad-rap nature of rimming we discussed can also make it an exciting activity to explore.  The raunchiness of it all can be psychologically arousing for some.  If you’re someone who gets off on taboo fantasies, rimming may be precisely what the doctor ordered. 

Rim jobs are like snowflakes

No two are the same.  Like the old saying goes, “There’s more than one way to skin a cat.”  The same can be said for rimming.  Part of the art of rimming is learning what technique works best for you and your partner.  Think of it as developing your own anilingus style or language.  Some people enjoy lapping up their partner’s backside like an energetic puppy drinking from a hydrant.  Others dart their tongue in and out or flick the anal surface vigorously.

How will everyone know the activity is finished? When people have viral stomach infections, most experience diarrhea or stomach pain, which can be transmitted to you through rimming.

STIs

Practicing safe sex is as important for rimming as in every other sexual act. Ass licking. Though the results may need to be treated with caution, as they are preliminary, it serves an insight to the prevention of the spread of STIs.

Rim Job Tips & Techniques

The rim job can be an exciting way to take elevate oral sex and with these rimming tips, you can become a pro in no time.